The lack of dependability can be emotional as well - being there for you one minute and gone the next. not only did he have a few of these signs, but I can site examples for all 12. but his Charisma and charm sucked me in just like the article states.
When you observe a pattern of inconsistency between what your partner says, versus what she or he actually does, you may be dealing with a narcissist. Instant Gratification Some narcissists, being highly self-centered and self-absorbed, expect instant gratification to fulfill their needs. I even had a similar incident with my mom being sick and he walking out on me... he is actually a retired mental health counselor, so of course I thought he was probably right and would only look out for any human being's welfare, especially mine.... the last we were together he went into a RAGE that I had never seen before so much that I feared for my life in the car, so I sat quietly and listened... I kept thinking maybe he was bipolar or schizophrenic, but I am CERTAIN it was narcissim....
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Targets of their negative talk may include “inferior” colleagues, “incompetent” managers, “clueless” friends, and “flawed” former relations.
During the initial phase of dating, the narcissist may pour on the charm and entice you with many compliments.
Common conversational topics for narcissists include accomplishments and achievements (the trophy complex), exciting and envy-worthy activities, excessive focus on personal issues and concerns, excessive focus on looks and materialism, and putting others down to show one’s own superiority. Charming and Romantic – But with a Catch Many narcissists can come across as alluring and attractive, especially during the initial stages of a relationship, when they’re trying to win you over. Also, while you have time to think things through and he loves you so couples therapy can be suggested, or just counseling to help him deal with his narcissism.
Like a master salesperson, they use charisma to get your attention, flattery to make you feel special, seduction (flirting, gifts, dinners, get-aways, sex, etc.) to lift you off your feet, and persuasion to get you to give them what they want. Though I will tell you know that some Narcissists are STUBBORN and them thinking they are always in the right won't help.
This may range from goading you to answer their texts or calls immediately, to pressuring you to do things their way (socially, interpersonally, and/or sexually). Sexual Narcissism and Infidelity in Early Marriage. I just had not idea how that disorder impacts more than him liking himself.