I immigrated here 10 years ago, and I must say that I totally agree with you.Physically, I am the typical good-looking Italian brunette girl with a curvy but toned body and a thin waist, which here looks quite exotic and appealing, I guess, amongst all these blondes.
” Then one of these Italian guys said, “Well, it is really no fun if the girl hands you her undies after the first few conversations.” I have even tried to take matters into my own hands and try to “drive” the game from my side.
But as soon as I try to be more aloof and elusive, the Aussie guy just loses interest, as his general laziness doesn’t allow him to plan ahead and enjoy the chase. In the end, all men want the same thing everywhere in the world.
Leave the clothes on and be fearless in your explorations. Any wise person will tell you there is a lot to learn from even the shortest of romantic encounters; grab a pen. Sure, Italians can be a little crazy and a pain in your ass.
If you’re constantly aiming for the end result, not only will you miss the scenery, you’re also more likely to take a wrong turn. You’ve got to pay the toll somewhere down the line, don’t you?
They are lucky that they are tall and muscular, unlike Italian expats here.