If you are looking at a guy’s profile, and there is something that concerns you, instead of just closing the match, why not reach out and ask a question? There is no magic formula to this, so adjusting expectations and settling into the journey with a patient mindset will make the process a more positive one.
If a man makes no mention about pets, and you are in love with dogs, instead of assuming he doesn’t like them, ask him. If a match doesn't get back to you immediately, instead of assuming they aren't into you, keep an open mind and have faith that everything will happen as it should. Our visual counterparts want to check you out…that is a reality!
Make sure you are smiling and not smirking, please. Then post some images playing volleyball, hiking, golfing, or participating in your favorite sports.
So give them a nice representation of who you are and what you like to do by posting a variety of photos.
Oh and pics with your girlfriends are totally fine, just make sure you are recognizable, and not holding a bottle of Budweiser! ) Yes, more on photos (because they are that important).
Way too many people write exactly the same things on their profiles.
So much so that a discussion about it has been started on Advice. No more “I live life to the fullest,” “I like to paint the town red,” “I’m drama free,” “I like to take things slow,” or “I’m looking for my best friend.” Try and show a little originality.
If the settings on e Harmony confuse you at all – contact customer care and they will happily help out.